The other day, the questionnaire survey which carried on by 1054 guardians demonstrated: The nearly 70% parents thought that they are defeat's guardian.
Participates in this investigation the expert indicated that the guardian in fulfills guardian this responsibility regarding oneself in the situation the approval to be very low, this in fulfills the guardian responsibility with them, carries on the home education to have the problem repeatedly, came across the setback to have the close relationship 0.1 to do the matter which many originally should not the guardian do or does not excel do. For instance quite many guardians too pay great attention regarding the classroom instruction to counsel child's study, teaches the knowledge for the child,Baby Boutique, and did not understand that the teaching the characteristic and the rule,discount kids shoes, often spent the very big time to be very actually difficult effectively, sometimes also will let the child be very repugnant; Second,(Related Articles[celebrates the new year for seven days happily daily joyful] happy lively 2010 Spring Festival), knows to the child has biased,discount girls coats, child's characteristic works as shortcoming. For instance has many guardians to child's active, mischievous, wants to play all the time the wound to pass the brain, actually plays is child's instinct, the guardian does not let the child play, is not good at guiding the child to process amusingly with the study relations, finally the child is not always obedient; Third, the process works as the result, finishes in a hast. In the parents eye, the child question are too always many, is always defeated. Slightly made a mistake to an examination, as big enters a higher school the test as one not to test, can initiate the guardian to child's disaffection.
Educates the researcher to point out that the most guardian's negative self-appraisals, had reflected to a great extent the guardian own role localization mistake and knows in the raise child to the child the deviation. In fact, overwhelming majority children in healthy development, but grows the question to be inevitable. But the guardian discusses himself to be defeated extravagantly from this, no helps to the raise child, what needs is the establishment is self-confident, improves own education quality diligently.
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